Allowing Myself to Enjoy a Mens Sex Fetish

I have been living with my mens sex fetish for so long that I don’t even consider it a fetish any more. I feel that it is just another extension of my life rather than the fetish that most people would see it as. When you enjoy something so much that it becomes a part of you in every way possible, then does it really count as a fetish? I would have to say that it doesn’t. But there are a lot of guys in the world that would argue the finer points of what a fetish is and I am sure they would feel they are completely right.

I used to think anyone with a fetish, let alone a mens sex fetish, was completely insane. I always thought that having a fetish meant there was something fundamentally wrong with you on some level. That probably has more to do with the way society in general looks at things like fetishes, though. I was raised to believe that sexual deviants are not to be messed with and that I should do everything in my power to stay away from them if I can. I think that type of thinking shouldn’t be forced on others now.

If you have a mens sex fetish, and you enjoy it, then there is nothing wrong with that. I don’t go around forcing everyone around me to hear about my fetish exploits or anything like that so why should people that don’t understand how a fetish helps others go around forcing their opinion on us? I think more people would be happier in their lives if they just had a chance to truly experience a fetish like this without feeling like they are morally bankrupt for doing so. Then maybe the sexualized world would be allowed to have a chance in the light of day.

 

 

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Learning When to Speak about Your Mens Sex Fetish

When it comes to having a mens sex fetish, most people aren’t going to see it as something normal. I know his because I have this kind of fetish and, when I was younger, I tried explaining it to people. I lost a lot of possible friends by doing something like that and regret it deeply now that I am older. On the other hand, I have learned from those mistakes and I don’t tell anyone about my fetish unless I find out that they too enjoy something similar to what I do. Then, I will tell them about everything I like.

Trying to keep your mens sex fetish a secret can be a pain in the ass sometimes, but it’s worth the effort. I have had to come up with a lot of excuses because people have found me involved in something to do with my fetish that they probably shouldn’t have seen. Every time that happens, though, it seems like they don’t fully believe me and I end up seeing them less and less as the months go by. Until one day you realize that this person hasn’t been in your life for a long time.

I do have a couple of friends that I have shared my secret mens sex fetish with and they still accept me for who I am. I even have a few that enjoy the same fetish and they just didn’t know it until I told them about mine. One friend even thought there was something wrong with him until he found out that there were plenty of other men in the world that enjoyed the same fetish as he did. He didn’t even know about it until we started up a conversation that turned into a fetish talk. Now he comes to me all the time with things that he has found out, which is a bit odd to say the least. But I guess he just needs to talk to someone he can trust.

 

 

 

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